I'd like to guide you out of your comfort zone as you discover and explore sexual fantasies that might not present themselves in everyday dating. If you've been wanting to break free of bland experiences, challenge yourself in a supportive environment, and set new resolutions of sexiness in 2025 then I think we'd have a lot of fun. What would you like to explore under the semi-anonymity of Reddit chat, expanding into face-to-face discussions and playtime as opportunities present themselves?

I imagine meeting someone curious to explore existing recurring fantasies or tap in to her emerging desires.

1. Chat about your favorite things and what you've been curious to explore, even if you're not sure how to make it happen.
2. Consider if any of your current FWBs, hookups, or dates could lead you towards what you're craving. I'd be a message away after each exploration, reminding you of your goals and potential pitfalls of falling back into old patterns.
3. Create new opportunities to experience your fantasies, including refining the details of what you'd truly like to experience.

The intermittent availability of the holiday season and the self-examination of new year's resolutions feel like a perfect time to demand more and consider a path to reach your sexual goals / curiosities. I'd like to be a free personal trainer of the sensual realm, helping you discover and achieve new possibilities.

I've met women who have no shortage of hookups and FWBs but never seem comfortable demanding something new or realizing fantasies. Your thoughts drift towards different scenarios during self-pleasure sessions that you're not quite sure how to turn into reality. She might feel like there's a lot to explore, especially if she's recently out of a relationship, but unsure how to get started and knows she might need a more skilled introduction or at least motivation and encouragement to pursue (or discover) what she really wants.

I'm 45 years old, single, straight, and live in San Francisco. 6' tall, straight, and discreet. I'm easy going, patient, have a curious mind, and I've been told I'm perceptive. I'm an experienced masseur, enjoy cuddling, have taken classes on fingering techniques, stroked clit during orgasmic meditation sessions, have made women shake uncontrollably with delight, and have discovered her many kinks and unique desires.

I've dated women in the past who seemed caught in a cycle of performing for someone else while never really exploring her own wants and desires. Exploration felt too risky for the randomness of dating, but she might have been happy to stumble upon my patient guidance. A few women reached out years later and mentioned how pivotal that exploration had been, allowing her to tune in to what she wants and not question if it's OK or reciprocated. I'd like to expand more sexual horizons and build a more sexually confident you.

What have you been curious to explore or improve in your sex life if you were freed from judgement? Say hello and let's possibly turn a lackluster or shy sex life into new sexual confidence and empowerment.