My ideal relationship would be vanilla during daylight hours and some good naughty fun after hours. I'm a white collar professional and wouldn't want to give that up/force my partner to give it up, but my ideal partner would enjoy spicing up our Friday nights with some slutty fun...maybe we go out with friends and they don't know you've got a vibrator on, for example.
Happy to date pretty normally until trust is built, the slowly have you give up control of your life to your partner. To me the hottest part of CNC is absolute control in exchange for absolute commitment and care. Obviously it can take time to get to that but it's worth the wait.
In the long run I have fantasies of turning my partner into my perfect trophy wife (hopefully not in a controlling way but in a fun sexy way). I've always had a fantasy of paying for my partners boobs, so that's likely the only non-negotiable eventually.
I'm actually not into anything too crazy in the bedroom but my dick usually hurts women so I really enjoy getting them off in other ways. Though if you enjoy the pain even better 😉
Outside of kink: stable homeowner with a white collar job in San Francisco. 6'2", keep fit. Olive skin, dark hair. D&D free. Wine lover and trying California wines is a favorite hobby. Also into the gym, and play around with making electronic music on the side. Open to travel for dating as M-F I'm pretty busy and don't mind flying weekends, but local is obviously preferred If you're interested send a pic and I'll return the favor
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