I know this sub can be pretty sex intensive and in your face... so figured I'd throw this out there and see if anyone is looking for a bit more than just sex. Short / medium term perhaps even long / committed or not / part time relationship / I'm open to various ideas as long as its mutual and honest and both of us agree.

To start with, fuck trump. hard.

I'm looking for someone to chill with, see some live music (bonus point for phish / the dead / goose / blue grass / hip hop / blues), stand up comedy (kam patterson, jeff arucuri, matt rife etc) spend time in nature, witty banter on boring days, semi intelligent / flirty conversations. Lay around watching something or listening to a show without the focus being sex (sex is great, just not my main focus).

I have two kids that i wouldn't want you involved with unless things got serious and long term. I'm fine with you having kids and feeling the same. I dont need your full attention and i'm open to different types relationship that can fit as much or little into both our current lifestyles. Honesty and transparency a must.

I'm 6'6", blonde/blue eyes / beard/ dad bod i guess you'd call it. I enjoy anything outside, especially around water. I travel for live music, prefer to backpack as a form of travel, am financially and mentally stable, fairly intelligent and able to carry on a conversation. No drama on my side, healthy and respectful relationship with my kids mom.

Looking for someone in their 30s or 40s that isn't looking to jump head first into a super serious relationship. Be able to carry on a conversation thats not one sided. Financially and mostly emotionally/mentally stable (we all have our shit going on one way or another). I'm not pushy, i'm happy to take a while to get to know each other before moving forward. just putting myself out there to see if i can find someone to click with

And to be clear, i'm not anti sex by any means, i love it, am open and fun but i just dont want it to be the main focus.