I’d like to meet the affectionate creature stirring within you. Her cuddle cravings might intensify as the fog returns to the city, winds begin to rattle the leaves off trees, and pumpkin spice latte season transitions to walnut and peppermint. She feeds off body heat, craves closeness, and is happiest when her full affectionate radiance is encouraged, nurtured, and reciprocated. Embrace the affectionate creature within or discover your affectionate potential through new, cuddle-focused adventures.

A good cuddle buddy recognizes her appreciation for affection and wants to spend more time wrapped up in someone's arms exploring her affectionate side. She wants to be more present in her enjoyment of touch without an agenda driving her towards a particular destination. Good cuddling might reinforce what she'd like in future relationships, expose new affectionate preferences and compatibilities, or reveal an affectionate side that has been dormant for far too long.

I'm 42, single, sane, bathe regularly, and live in San Francisco. I work full-time as a software engineer (including some work from home flexibility), train dogs for a local non-profit, and make chocolate and wine as hobbies. I might seek out a relaxing evening of cuddling after spending the day biking around the city, hiking in nearby forests, or exploring new restaurants and pop-ups. The warmth of early fall can be busy with active adventures or lazy days, and good cuddling can pair well with both.

You should bathe regularly, realize when your many layers of clothing can be abrasive or inhibiting, recognize when your extra long hair presents a choking hazard, and be a generally easy-going person. Ideally we'd like each other enough to cuddle more than once, getting more comfortable with time and exposure. I've had some good cuddle buddies in the past, ranging from lesbians who like to be spooned to experienced snugglers glad to find someone who shares their enthusiasm. I'm hopeful good cuddle buddies could be a chat request away!

An initial cuddle session could be in a movie theater with the armrest between us swung up while watching a movie such as 'Wild Robot' or 'Conclave.' We could lounge on a couch watching questionable dating reality shows or chatting. Advanced cuddle sessions might involve laying on a bed getting sleepy.

Curious if a good cuddle buddy is possible? Reach out and say hi!