The best feeling in the world is when you make that perfect connection to someone and a whole world of possibility just opens up in front of you. I want to be that connection for you. To be your guide and your teacher and your lover and your safe space to be your most authentic self. You’ll never need to pretend around me, I want you full volume, no filters. I want to know every corner of your brain and every inch of your skin. It’s all mine: the twinkle in your eye when you’re bratty, the way your breath quickens when you’re needy. And when you break, I will lovingly piece you back together with my own strong hands.

I’m older, more experienced and steady than younger men. I know exactly what I want and I know exactly how to get it - morally, ethically, safely - but with a raging passion. I am a befreckled ginger scorpio after all, so you KNOW what you’re getting into.

But I am also a tender and loving partner, full of patience and kindness and gratitude. I work hard on my mental health, my attitudes and the way I interact with the world. I understand trauma and healing very deeply.

What I want is a long term partner that will be a permanent fixture in my life. A pet, a slave, a good little toy for me to cherish and use and own. I have a married partner and I want us to all play and live together, when we get there. To gather together a small group of friends and lovers to live simply and authentically is how we have decided to live our lives. We have no kids and don’t want them. I hope you feel the same.

Write me. Tell me what makes you blush. Tell me your comfort food and your favorite comfort show. When I wrap you a blanket and rub lotion on your red and sore skin after a rough session, I want you to feel completely safe and protected. Tell me about your dreams, your hopes and fears about this crazy life. I want to be right there by your side for all of it.