I'd like to explore your recurring fantasies, discover your emerging desires, and guide you towards new experiences of sexual exploration. The semi-anonymous nature of Reddit chat might help you step out of your comfort zone and start wondering what could be possible with the right person, the right scenario, or help you hone in on what you really want. Eventually the continued exploration beyond existing familiarity and comfort builds new sexual confidence, just like going to a gym would build new muscles or flexibility. I'd like to be a free personal trainer of the sensual realm, helping you discover and achieve new possibilities. What would you love to explore if you didn't feel judged and felt safe to step out and try new things?

I've met women who have no shortage of hookups and FWBs but never seem comfortable demanding something new or realizing fantasies. Your thoughts drift towards different scenarios during self-pleasure sessions that you're not quite sure how to turn into reality. She might feel like there's a lot to explore, especially if she's recently out of a relationship, but unsure how to get started and knows she might need a more skilled introduction or at least motivation and encouragement to pursue (or discover) what she really wants.

I'm 45 years old, single, straight, and live in San Francisco. 6' tall, straight, and discreet. I'm easy going, patient, have a curious mind, and I've been told I'm perceptive. I'm an experienced masseur, enjoy cuddling, have taken classes on fingering techniques, stroked clit during orgasmic meditation sessions, have made women shake uncontrollably with delight, and have discovered her many kinks and unique desires.

I've dated women in the past who seemed caught in a cycle of performing for someone else while never really exploring her own wants and desires. Exploration felt too risky for the randomness of dating, but she might have been happy to stumble upon my patient guidance. A few women reached out years later and mentioned how pivotal that exploration had been, allowing her to tune in to what she wants and not question if it's OK or reciprocated. I'd like to expand more sexual horizons and the sexual confidence you'd like to build.

What have you been curious to explore or improve in your sex life if you were freed from judgement? Say hello and let's possibly turn a lackluster or shy sex life into new sexual confidence and empowerment.