It’s been a while since I’ve been on a date that made me smile, laugh, and maybe—just maybe—swoon a little. I’m in a dead bedroom and craving something more. Something fun, joyful, connected—physically and emotionally—and maybe with a little spice.

And speaking of things I’ve been missing… meat. Yes, you read that right. I’ve started endurance training again, and suddenly, my body is craving steak, seafood, burgers—meat with a side of meat, LOL. My plant-based family is raising their eyebrows, but I’m ready to indulge.

It’s not just the protein I crave. There’s something special about sitting down for a delicious meal across from someone attractive, engaging, and fun—someone who wants to savor life and enjoy the moment as much as I do. It’s more than just a meal; it’s an escape from the every day, a chance to connect, laugh, and forget about everything else for a couple of hours.

Let’s take it slow—pass the online compatibility test, and we’ll meet for an appetizer to see how things taste. I’m not looking for free meals, and I’m happy to split the check because this isn’t about who pays—it’s about the chemistry. If you can handle a little verbal foreplay and appreciate a woman who knows what she wants, let’s chat and see if we’ve got the right flavor.

About Me: I’m 49, 5’8", 160. fit, athletic, strong. I love hiking, swimming, sailing—anything outdoorsy—but I’m just as happy curled up with someone special, sharing a great meal and a good movie (or something a little more... titillating). I’m educated, stylish, well-groomed, and self-aware. Always striving to be a better communicator, I’ve got a sharp wit, a sense of humor, and I don’t take myself too seriously. Passionate and playful, I love a good laugh and can match energy—so if you bring it, I’ll bring it too.

About You: My dream man is 40-60, educated, intellectual, successful, fit, and with a wit that can keep up with mine. You live within an hour of the East Bay and have the time and means for a part-time but full-spark connection.

If you can hold your own in a playful, intelligent back-and-forth, maybe we’ll discover that the chemistry is right before we even look at the menu. After all, compatibility starts long before the first bite.

Message me, and let’s make some tasty memories we can’t tell anyone about. Please put your age in your response.