Over the weekend I posted a rant. Much to my surprise, despite not following the post requirements 100%, the mods didn’t take it down.

Thankfully, my inbox flooded w both men and women - women expressing how I eloquently captured my perspective and men expressing validation (and some trying to slide in despite my explicit comment that I was straight. But I still responded w a polite “no, thank you”:)) While I got some push back from some women, most seemed to appreciate my take.

It only felt right that in the theme of advocating for the good men out there, I’d make a post outlining the exact chain of events.

After writing all of this, I realize that maybe I gave a little too much details about some parts and not enough about others. But I’m also drained from writing. Given this is my first success story, I’d like to hear some feedback. So lmk what you liked/didn’t like about it and I could adjust for round 2*

For the sake of her privacy, let’s call her J. Late Friday evening I got a message from J that stood out - she said that at first she thought this was going to be another complaint about men not getting responded to, but then she quickly appreciated my perspective and even said she could be better with her etiquette. This was a great sign to me!

What caught her attention was my willingness to eat coochie and my openness to kink, which I alluded to in my post.

She expressed that she got out of a relationship a few months ago and has gone on a series of bad dates - and whenever it led to sex, it wasn’t good. She expressed that she loves head and that her ex wasn’t into it. Lastly, she said she’s been exploring w kink and realized she loves to please as well and considers herself a sub w slut tendencies. She’s clearly new to kink but we went down this rabbit hole, discussed consent and limits.

We exchanged some flirty texts all Friday night. Then exchanged some pics… deyam she had such a nice, round little butt and the most beautiful curly hair. She was two years older and had a perfect light-skin and gorgeous features.

We continued our chats all Friday night and into Saturday morning - which included getting to know each other’s intricate family dynamics and what brought us to the bay. We also touched on our mutual hate for the dating apps. Then, I asked if she’d like to get drinks on Sunday evening … to which she offered a resounding yes!

We continued chatting… but then things took a turn (for the good) when she texted me in the late afternoon. She said that a lot of her friends were at Portola but she couldn’t go because of her whack work schedule… and that she just wanted to be held and eaten out in the evening, right after work.

While this caught me by surprise, i was free and certainly not going to turn this down.

I said sure. I texted her my address. I went out to get a bottle of Cabernet and some ribbed condoms that she had mentioned she liked and prepared for her arrival.

She arrived at my door a little before 9pm. Wow, she was even prettier in person. And a lot shorter than I anticipated, I think about 5’ or 5’1.

I showed her the place and I took her straight to my bedroom where the open bottle of wine was waiting for her. I made an inside joke about being forward and knowing what I want - which worked really well in this case, setting the tempo for what was to come.

We sat on my bed and talked for a bit. She told me about her stressful day. I made sure to comfort her, touching her elbow and the side of her forearm lightly while looking into her eyes - constantly making sure she was comfortable. She seemed to be into it, gazing back deeply into my eyes.

I moved my body a little closer, and she moved closer too - our thighs now touching. Looking into her eyes and rubbing her back w my right hand, I slowly started caressing her inner thigh with my left. Subtly but obviously at the same time. She stopped mid sentence and looked me even deeper… at which point the energy was too intense and the kiss was inevitable. I leaned in and she met me half way.

Her lips were soft. Not too big, just right. She tasted sweet. I brought my hand to the back of her neck… I held hard but not tight. We were locked in each other. Recalling some of the things we talked about earlier, I slowly pulled her hair. She let out a sigh… at which point I picked her up and tossed her to the head of the bed.

Bringing myself on top of her, I worked my way around her ears and neck… and slowly went down to her thighs. I played w her breasts through her cloths, but didn’t bother taking anything off yet as it was all merely a distraction from the mission at hand.

I made my way down to leggings. I pulled up the lower part of her shirt and kissed her lower belly… teasing her as I would make my way down to her muff… and then back up. Continuously rubbing the inside of her thighs and lightly touching her labia before pulling away. I felt that whole area get hot and wet but I kept wanting to build the arousal so I kept teasing until she couldn’t take it anymore and tried taking the leggings off herself.

Finally I picked her legs up w her hips above the bed and pulled her leggings off w one hand, before I got on all fours started making my way up, kissing, from her inner right knee, up to her thighs, and then finally to her delicious pussy lips. She was sooo wet.

Wow I’m getting hard just thinking about it. I licked every part of her lips before moving forward to her swelled up clit… and then it was only a matter of minutes before she came for the first time.

Wow

that was only the beginning, but she said she hasn’t come like that in so long… and later, spoiler, she would tell me that she never came three times in one night until last night!

A lot more happened and we ended up having the wildest, most passionate, and, eventually, kinky sex. And Deyam did she give some enthusiastic ass head! Wow.

I even asked if I could film on my GoPro at the end and she said yes, so long as I dont show her face on the internet.

She was the one to later suggest that I make a success post;)

Anyways, if you want a part 2, dm me and I’ll make sure to include all the details of what happened after.

Oh and J’s scheduled to come back again tonight.

All this to say - Deyam - two days ago I thought this really was a lost causes but after the 10 or so responses I got back and this experience, I really do believe it all comes down to some genuine effort, a little creativity, and complete transparency.

Good luck out there, keep fighting for what you’re looking for!