I'm a big fan of cuddling and affectionate expression in general. Pulling someone close, wrapping her up in a full-body hug, and slowly tracing skin. The stress of the outside world fades into the background as she finds her new favorite position and expressions of enjoyment. I'd like more cuddling in my life and would like to create the nurturing cuddle environment that encourages your affectionate side to emerge at her full, supernova strength.

Maybe you've held back your affectionate tendencies in a prior relationship and are curious to explore what's possible if they were fully nurtured. You might be unsure if you have an affectionate side, or want to be more present in a slowed down embrace of affectionate possibilities. You might already have a peek at your affectionate side but seek out people who could appreciate that full expression. Good cuddling flows without an agenda, never pulling you towards an over sexualized assumed goal.

I'm 42, single, sane, bathe regularly, and live in San Francisco. I work full-time as a software engineer (including some work from home flexibility), train dogs for a local non-profit, and make chocolate and wine as hobbies. I might seek out a relaxing evening of cuddling after spending the day biking around the city, hiking in nearby forests, or exploring new restaurants and pop-ups. The warmth of early fall can be busy with active adventures or lazy days, and good cuddling can pair well with both.

You should bathe regularly, realize when your many layers of clothing can be abrasive or inhibiting, recognize when your extra long hair presents a choking hazard, and be a generally easy-going person. Ideally we'd like each other enough to cuddle more than once, getting more comfortable with time and exposure. I've had some good cuddle buddies in the past, ranging from lesbians who like to be spooned to experienced snugglers glad to find someone who shares their enthusiasm. I'm hopeful good cuddle buddies could be a chat request away!

Curious if a good cuddle buddy is possible? Reach out and say hi!