I'd like to tap into the latent desires of a younger woman, refine her sources of arousal, and blaze a path towards a fantasy realized. A confidant for your raw desires, even if you're unsure you'd ever go through with it, while guiding you towards a world of sexual potential and possibilities. What recurring fantasies feel out of reach? What would you love to explore if you didn't feel judged and felt safe to step out and try new things.

I have a few ideas in mind of how a personal trainer for the sexual realm might take advantage of the semi-anonymity of online chat to truly discover what you'd like without judgement:

1. Learning and exploring your existing fantasies, including where your mind wanders during self-pleasure sessions or the porn you enjoy the most.
2. A confidant after a hookup, discovering if you got what you wanted out of the experience and what you might change or pursue differently in the future.
3. Refine and reconfirm your desires, reminding you of your goals and the better sex that awaits you.
4. Create the experience that's lacking, if it interests both of us and you'd like the space to explore.

Fantasy of the experience you'd like to have can seem out of reach, especially when you're only surrounded with the familiar. You're more likely to explore your true desires and curiosities with someone new and want to build some accountability in the pursuit of your goals and escaping past patterns.

I'm 44 years old, single, and live in San Francisco. 6' tall, straight, and discreet. I'm easy going, patient, have a curious mind, and I've been told I'm perceptive. I'm an experienced masseur, enjoy cuddling, have taken classes on fingering techniques, stroked clit during orgasmic meditation sessions, have made women shake uncontrollably with delight, and have discovered her many kinks and unique desires.

I've dated women in the past who seemed caught in a cycle of performing for someone else while never really exploring her own wants and desires. Exploration felt too risky for the randomness of dating, but she might have been happy to stumble upon my patient guidance. A few women reached out years later and mentioned how pivotal that exploration had been, allowing her to tune in to what she wants and not question if it's OK or reciprocated. I'd like to expand more sexual horizons and the sexual confidence you'd like to build.

You should already be in tune with a few emerging desires and curious for new experiences and exposures. A personal trainer at a gym designs ways to challenge you and meet your goals, which is why I frame sensual fitness as a similar muscle you need to flex, and accept potential guidance towards your goals. Unlike a gym trainer, I'm not charging but instead curious to unlock sexual potential as you demand more from the many encounters available to you.

What have you been curious to explore or improve in your sex life if you were freed from judgement? Say hello and let's possibly turn a lackluster or shy sex life into new sexual confidence and empowerment.