Hi there I’m looking for a chill couple that is looking for a male to join for periodic threesomes. I am straight, so for me this is about focusing on the woman’s pleasure.

In the bedroom my strengths are my stamina, my control and my carnal desire. I enjoy long/multiple sessions. I have a natural and sensual way about me. I enjoy being masculine in general but I am not a dom/bull type. I am looking for a chill vibe centered around sensual pleasure. I prefer if the woman can have multiple orgasms as I take great pleasure in causing pleasure and so this creates a feedback loop for me that’s very nice.

I am white, 6’1”, 195lbs, I workout and run regularly, not an ab guy but I’m in shape. I have long blonde/brown/ashy hair and still have all of it. I have blue eyes and I wear glasses and I usually have a clean shaven face. Kind of a cute nerd crossed with a surfer. Also I’ve had a vasectomy.

Personally I grew up working class in the bay and now work in tech. I’m a lead engineer so I’m fairly nerd friendly but I’m also into football as well and enjoy camping and other outside activities. I also enjoy weed and alcohol in moderation and prefer if you are the same. I’m open to limited and conscious use of other substances as well.

I am not a swinger type, my open relationship is more about intentional connections. I do not have much threesome experience but I’m looking to change that.

It is important for me to find a chill couple where the man is not overly domineering. I find overly aggressive or degrading talk towards women to be a turn off. In the heat of battle I can be physically masculine and potentially aggressive but it is more about just feeling that carnal aggression as opposed to the more misogynistic variety.

I live in San Jose but I’m quite mobile and have no issue closing the distance myself.

Thanks for reading this far and I hope to hear from you!