I value your time a lot, and I hope you do mine to hence I’ll keep this as concise as I can.

I’m a 5’0, 160 lbs, south asian girl turning 22 this September, based in Mountain View (cannot host), leaving overseas at the end of the year. My background is in engineering (not software), I like to dress modest and have deep conversations in small groups.

As much as I’ve tried to hide it, the little deviant in me has been aching to explore kink just once to see if I really am into it, and I’m looking for a willing partner. I’ve always been the one to have to take responsibility, to be in charge, to always be aware of my surroundings, to always be cautious regardless of how good everything seems. It’s pointless engaging in shallow conversation over shallow conversation when what i want is to have my mind completely shut down in a safe space or even better fired up with nothing else but the thought of pleasing someone for the next couple of hours.

I want to chase the unfamiliar yet possibly comforting feeling of being allowed to let go, to rely on someone else, to be assured that it is okay to be myself instead of putting up these facades and indulge in being the spicy touch starved girl just once. I want to be the center of attention without feeling guilty about it because I’ve never prioritised myself over everyone and everything else I’ve encountered all along.

Make me physically and mentally assured that you’ve got it all under control for our day out from travel to our activities for the day that ceases by 11pm latest, and you’ve got a deal.

No penetrative sex, I’m fine with kisses and hugs and warm touches otherwise. Let’s talk kinks in private. We can buy things and outfits if you believe having them will make this day much better than without.

About you: 1) You’re an older man (23-32) who oozes chivalry and patience of the gentlest kind 2) You should be able to host if you’re planning to have a session in private-we should meet in public before that. If we’re meeting somewhere for such a session you’d have to pick me up depending on the time. 3) You’re confident that you can take responsibility of my vulnerability for the entire day and you’ll be clear about your expectations. 4) You don’t use snap and you’re comfortable with us using reddit or text messages for contact. 5) You don’t expect this to be ongoing but you would be interested if it continued depending on our conversations and meeting. 6) You have a little bit of experience in kink play. Once again iterating if your intentions include having sex don’t bother hitting my dms. 7) You like deep conversations because you get to revel in your intellect and test the mind of the other party for your amusement.

If you’re interested, send me a message detailing your idea of our Saturday and kinks you want to explore to see if we align. Have a good weekend :)