I’ve posted on here a few times and with good luck and fun times, I am looking forward to meeting more new people.

I’m 41, 5’3”, BBW, redhead, living in San Francisco. I’m married and we are open but we both do our own thing on the side.

I would like something casual, like a fwb, with a little emphasis on friend first. Let’s get drinks and see where it takes us. Maybe some days we want an activity partner to check out a new restaurant, on another day I might just call and see if I can come over for…you know…YOU know…like watching the Lord of the Rings trilogy extended edition. Kidding, maybe lol.

I’m a bit of a rough around the edges blue collar gal and I can be quite shy in person even though I know what I post on Reddit doesn’t make me seem so. I like a good sick sense of humor and some banter. Let’s talk some shiiiiiit. I prefer dives and pubs but do enjoy some cocktail lounges with drink ingredients that I can’t pronounce.

I like the nice sweet respectful men. Someone who likes to give and receive affection. Someone mature, clean and hygienic. I’m a sucker for facial hair and the blue collar guys but open to broaden my attraction. I prefer men around my age or older.

You are in my situation, single, married, whatever but I want someone who is willing to have fun with this, more so than just in the bedroom. Meet a couple times a month.

I am not looking to travel outside of the city. I also will not host.

I am not interested in bdsm, sub, dom, femdom, mommy, daddy stuff. I’m not into the lifestyle events, parties, clubs, and so on. I wouldn’t say I’m vanilla, but I’m pretty “normal” in what I like and want.

If you’ve made it this far (damn look at you) and are still interested then send me a sfw pic of yourself. Chemistry is important but we both know physical attraction brings us together. There’s plenty of me in my profile. Tell me your favorite bars in the city, favorite dim sum and what you are looking for.

I get tested regularly and expect a recent negative test before anything progresses. I’m vaxxed 4x. Very much lean left but I don’t want to talk politics at all.

I hope you all find what you are looking for out there