I am just a simple man looking to explore and hopefully meet a like-minded and caring woman. The world can be tough and stressful sometimes so let’s find a space where we can open up and enjoy each other’s company, whether online or in person.

I am 35, married with one kid. Currently living and working in the Bay Area. Physically, I’m 6 feet tall, East Asian (very ABC), with an athletic build (not body builder level but I am fit). My family and career are extremely important and I do not want to change my situation, which means OPSEC is of top priority.

I’m hoping to find someone with similar interests so we have something to talk about early before diving into the deep end. Perhaps you’re into sports and are passionate about a specific team or teams (Warriors, Giants, and 49ers fans to the front but any sports fan is a plus).

Or maybe you’re more into movies and tv shows and want to talk about how the ending of a great show was completely botched and buried six feet into the ground (I’m looking at you Game of Thrones). I do love watching movies more than tv but been trying to catch up on some shows.

OR you’re a gamer nerd who loves gaming a bit. Let’s talk about what you’ve been playing and what games you’re excited for coming out in the future (or if you’re brave enough, we can play something together).

Whatever your interests may be, I would love someone who is passionate and can hold a conversation. Be engaging and thought provoking. You can be shy, but still confident. I am an open book and love talking to any and all kinds of people.

Where do I want this to ultimately go? I am looking towards playing the long game and hopefully this is something that can last longer than a week (although I fully understand these things don’t last forever). Let us enjoy each other mentally, emotionally, and perhaps physically. Come say hi and let’s see how our story unfolds.