New account to separate my NSFW activities from my SFW activities on the internet. Fully realize my account being brand new is a red flag-happy to take things slow and fully respect and welcome you being cautious.

As the above and my username implies I’m a Soft/Mommy Domme who’s a normal human outside her kinks, and is looking for a good boi/bois for a consistent and ongoing dynamic, with the potential to grow into a FLR behind closed doors. I discovered this part of myself in the last few years, and have been exploring it online and irl.

I’ve found it to be incredibly fulfilling and healing for myself, and for the subs I’ve had along the way. I’ve got a few folks that would probably be happy to provide some references, if that’s something that would make you feel more secure.

Me as a human:

Good humored, opinionated, a bit goofy, straightforward, kind, caring, genuine, like to think I’m down to earth/ generally no bullshit. Ambivert- so while I read as outgoing to most folks, and generally find talking with most folks easy, I need time to recharge.

Have an alt-ish look (tattoos, piercings, non-natural hair color). I work in non-startup tech, but am not a techie. 5’6, and curvy with some muscle (195-ish and I think I carry it okay). I’m no supermodel, but people seem to find me pretty attractive for a normal person.

I enjoy being active (walking, roller skating, being around water, would like to get back into lifting), but I’m definitely not a gym rat, and I love a lazy day in bed reading, or being outside in the sun at a brewery.

Kink-wise:

I’m into chastity, orgasm control/denial, cum play, pegging, light to medium impact play, restraints, ass play, teasing, slight exhibitionism, some light CBT, lingerie/thigh highs/panty play, and receiving worship. I’d like to explore service dynamics, cuck dynamics, and encouraging bi play/exploration.

I’m open to negotiating and exploring, though I have hard limits on full feminization, blood, scat, knife/needle play, hardcore degradation, CNC, extreme breath play, diaper play. I don’t yuck yums, so everything is open for discussion, but as a general rule, if it requires me being very extreme or very mean/hurtful, I’m not into it. I’m a lover girl at heart, and the caregiving aspect of this dynamic is what I enjoy most.

Sexual health is important to me- I will produce recent test results and require same if we get there. An in depth conversation about your recent partners, as well as your sexual health practices will be required.

You:

25-early 40’s. But attraction, and vibes is more important than anything else. Not looking for a kink-dispenser, but for a genuine connection and an understanding that this dynamic should be mutually fulfilling. Stable job/generally have your shit together as much as any adult can. Intelligent, can hold a conversation, understands basically hygiene and sexual health practices. Emotionally intelligent enough to be able to communicate about your feelings, desires, needs, and when things aren’t working for you.

If the above sounds like something you’d be interested in, send me a message, and after some initial chatting, let’s set an initial video chat. Please don’t start with anything sexually explicit- I’m looking for humans first, kinky shit second.

Thanks for reading my novel!