Who I am: 36, Asian-American. I look like a k-pop star, but whitewashed from growing up most of my life here in California. I work full time, live on my own and pay all my own bills. I look younger for my age, but I have the communication skills for this type of relationship. I have no kids or wives. I don't do drugs besides some occasionally drinking and smoking. I spend most of my free time playing video games, working out, or cooking. I am pretty vanilla and boring on the outside, but a kinky dom on the inside. I am respectful, professional, and have a sarcasitc outrageous sense of humor once I get to know you.

Who you are: Any age that is legal, so 18 . Drug and disease free. Mature mentally and emotionally for your age. Any race is ok with me. It is a BIG plus skinny/petite/A cup/small girls, but I am ok up to height/weight proportioniate. If you have a virgin thats ok, we can start slow. If you have daddy issues thats an even bigger plus ;)

Kinks: CNC (obvs), impact play, pussy and clit spanking, anal and ass play, ddlg, ageplay(to a degree which we can discuss privately) orgasm control (forcing and denial), light bondage, gags/blindfolds. Please note: every kink, both yours and mine, is a subject for discussion, not an absolute. I will not judge your kinks, in any way, even if I don't share them. I have some wild taboo kinks I at least fantasize about, it would be awesome to find someone safe and understanding to dabble in them.

Limits: Blood, guns or other weapons, needles, blades, animals, scat, other dudes. These are absolute.

This is the process I would like to adhere to

First, a substantive online interaction to establish that we are both normal, sane people who happen to like it really rough.

We send some pictures back and forth to ensure the attraction. Then some voice calls, and even some video calls. No one wants to waste their time being catfished. I much rather prefer to meet up in public, like a local starbucks. Again so we can establish comfort and rapport. That makes the rough sex even more enjoyable with a trusting partner.

Finally, when we are both certain this is what we want to do, there will be discussion about meeting location, scenario, and safety. I prefer to host since I pay so much for rent i'd rather spend my money on a fun date rather than waste on a hotel room. I am also open to you spending the night to make a longer travel trip worth it. The weekends work best for me due to work scheduling wise, however alternate days could be an option with enough notice. And aftercare is important and thus up for discussion.

This may be a one time thing, it may not be. We shall see. But that doesn't affect how we approach the entire thing.

If you're interested, reply with your favorite tv show or movie in your first message so I know you've read the whole post. Can't wait to here from you!

P.s. anyone proposing any "trades" or links to "OF" will be instantaly blocked. There are subs for that, this is not one of them.