Hello!

I am looking for a bit of connection. Not holding out for high romance or long term relationship building, but I definitely don't want a quick and dirty hookup. Some people love them (and I do too, at times), but that's not what I want right now.

I am not here to simply get you off by telling you what I'd do to you if I was there right now. If you ask, I'll likely just stop responding. I am not looking to just swap pics. I am looking for a bit of intimacy instead of a pump and dump, so I figured I'd offer to lend a hand (or more) to someone who is curious to try out some guy-on-guy naked time.

Me: San Francisco based, older, white, fuzzy, recently tested, dad bod havin', bi, top guy, on PrEP and fully Vaxxed (COVID and mPox) and Boosted.

You: new(ish) to the mm experience, younger (than me, but still 18 please), curious, and not a flake. Smooth(ish), lanky, and kind of nerdy/awkward are all bonuses, but certainly not required. Trans folk welcome. Ladies/couples, if you're interested... bring it! I'm definitely down!

I will want to chat a bit (via dm or in person over drinks/coffee) before anything happens. Not because I am looking for something long term, but because I prefer naked time to be with folks I know I'd want to see a second time (even if we never actually meet up again). Definitely not looking to just fuck. Also not looking for RIGHT FREAKIN NOW so if you're in that much of a hurry, save us both some time and move along.

I have no expectations around what happens. Your comfort level and curiosity sets the stage. I can get myself off whenever I want to (I'm really good at it). This is about the playful intimacy for me. If you're feeling the need to be a little subby, we can probably work that out as well. You just need to tell me.

If this sparks some interest, drop me a chat message and tell me a bit about yourself and what you're looking for.

"Hi!" "Hey!" "What's up?" and other one line intros will be ignored. Also, please don't send pictures right off the bat. And if you tend to chat for a while then ghost, just... don't. Please? Too many people reach out, sound cool, then just vanish.

To show you actually read this far, tell me who your go-to music artist is right now somewhere in your message.

Bonus points if you make me laugh.