If you are looking for a wholesome AP for more than just the physical connection, we may be a great fit.

Hi. I'd be the best AP and the only one you'll ever need. Chances are, you're here because you are missing that connection emotionally, physically, or both despite being married. Or maybe you're single but lonely. I can satisfy that, because in a dead bedroom for years, I'm craving that too. Being a professional in the Silicon Valley, it's hard to make genuine friends on a deeper level. So I turn to the community on reddit to see if I can find that one special person for a local, and lasting relationship where we fill each others' voids and complete each other.

I'm awesome in many ways. I pick up my own trash, I tip waiters well. I volunteer. And yes, I return my shopping carts. As a professional who works from home, I tend to be available most times for chat and texting daily. Through excellent communication, I can be your dependable confidant. I want to be the guy who gets you, just when you think that no one, including your spouse, understands you. It'll make me so happy to learn about you, your day, and what grinds your gears. I'd like to help make your day just a little brighter through jokes and generally oozing positivity your way.

I have a myriad of interests and having accumulated tons of life experiences, I am a great conversationalist. I can relate to life as a parent, an unappreciated spouse, a cog in a big corporation, and so much more. I can also teach you things because I'm pretty knowledgeable and wise beyond my years. Either way, communicating with you, seeing the world through your eyes, I'm sure will help me grow and make me a better person, and I hope our relationship will help make you a better person too. The satisfaction of growth, for both you and me, is what I seek in an AP, in addition to the delicious intimacy.

As far as me the person, I'm in my early 40s, fit, no piercings or tattos. Clean shaven with a head of black hair. East asian american, average height. I'm the typical stranger who walks past you on the street who says hello with a friendly smile. Typical disclaimer of I'm married with a dead bedroom so I undersatnd discretion and opsec very well. My interests include travel, sports, sharing food, learning new languages and new technologies. I have a thirst for personal growth. I am compassionate and empathetic. I have been described as quite the catch.

Don't I sound too good to be true? Maybe. Though selfishly speaking, I'm so awesome because I'm seeking such awesomeness in return. Someone who can keep up. Someone who cares about me and our relationship, who has a naughty side as I do that need to be unleashed. What matters to me most is that you are also a good person. A caring person. Open minded. The good heart in good people really shine through. So I am open to race, age, status. Please send me a chat or DM. Tell me your thoughts of what an ideal AP is. We just might be the last AP we'll ever have. So send me a chat now. Especially if you, too, return your shopping cart.