Okay. Third time was not a charm but there are sparks. So there's hope still. So here I go again.

I have given this a lot of thought and have decided that Redditors are my type. I am friends with people that I met through Reddit but none through dating apps. That tells me something. So here I am.

I am 32 years old, brown, Indian, 5'2, 170 pounds. I am on a journey to become fit that doesn't necessarily mean losing weight, but getting stronger. I am independent, spontaneous when it comes to weekend plans and travel, a bit restless indoors and like to wander outdoors, into hiking, national parks and chasing new experiences. I read a lot of fiction but struggle with non fiction. I love spending time walking around cute downtowns and bookshops in general. I am mostly vegetarian but love chicken wings. I enjoy exploring new cuisines and dishes.

I work in tech and obsessive about work even if I hate it at the moment. I am introverted until I get comfortable. I am kind, empathetic and always try to see the good in people. Oh, and I am also kinky AF.

I will l stop with my description now. I got out of a three years old relationship six months ago. I thought I had found the "one" but maybe there isn't one, just a bunch of possibilities that needs work to make them the "one".

I would like to meet someone older than me, fit, intelligent and kind with similar interests who can hold a good conversation. Although the end goal is a relationship, I know things sometimes work and sometimes it doesn't. Looking for some fun dates and experiences that have potential to grow into a relationship.

I currently live in San Jose and would make things easier if you are around here. No married or attached men. Also fun dates is not euphemism for sex at the end of the date. In fact, I have a new rule of three dates before jumping into bed.

P.S.: I really appreciate long texts with elaborate description! I have poured my heart out in the post and it'd be nice to see some effort on your side too. And if you ask me questions on things that I have already shared here, I will point out that, albeit through a thinly veiled joke.