Recently moved to the Bay Area and don't have anyone to be kinky with! Experienced as a Domme for about a decade now and moving has opened up time and availability for a new partner. I'm currently south of the bay but will be moving to Oakland later in the year.

I've noticed I attract and enjoy playing with men who are typically dominant in their personal, professional, and/or sex lives but crave to explore and satisfy their submissive side. I enjoy playing up the difference between men's outer lives as a masculine, dominant man and their private lives where they are still masculine but submissive. I'm good at creating a safe space for vulnerability since I know many men don't have that in their lives to express themselves.

I'm looking for queer/bi/pan men or straight guys who like trans women and would enjoy the role reversal of giving up the control they are so used to performing. Ideally this would be a consistent dynamic where we get to know each other, since I know the psychological/emotional part is the most sexy. Here are some kinks of mine:

- orgasm control (my favorite and a must!)

- tease and denial (lots of edging, tempting, and denying instant gratification)

- objectification (treating you as a plaything/pet/himbo/personal porn star)

- training (giving you tasks and goals so you can show me you're a good boy)

- light bondage (just enough so you can't do anything while I edge you <3)

- light humiliation (less necessary, I want to make you flustered about your own desires and what I make you do for me)

A little about me: employed creative type, 5'6" mixed brown lady with a caring and teasing style of control. Into art, board games, technology, and cooking or anything food related really! Happy to verify and go into more personal details in private.

If you're interested, please send me a message with your story and what kinks and interests you have. I would like to know you both as a person and a sub! Sending a pic catches my attention the most and helps me know you're serious.

Looking forward to meeting you!