This is a long shot but I thought I’d try my luck here on Reddit. If you’re reading this - hi! :) I’m looking for love (within the framework of a long-term monogamous relationship). I’ve been in multiple long term relationships before and feel happiest when I have a partner to share my life with. I’ve been trying out dating apps but so far haven’t found anyone I connect with on the level I’m looking for. I’m bisexual but leaning primarily towards men these days (though somewhat open). I’m looking for my person.

A bit about me - I’m a strong independent woman, I know what I like, high IQ and EQ, in therapy and always working on myself, have close friends and family, lots of active hobbies, and have a great career. I’m tall, white, average build, and conventionally attractive. I’ve worked hard to create the life I have and can (and do) take care of myself, but would love to be with someone who wants to take care of me. I’m extremely loyal to those in my life and expect the same level of devotion and care in return. I have a high bar for the kinds of people and relationships I foster in my life and also enjoy spending time on my own. I have a strong desire and need for emotional depth, intimacy, connection and communication in my interpersonal relationships. I tend to lean somewhere between securely and anxiously attached. Though most people wouldn’t guess this, I’m highly sensitive, emotional, and a romantic at heart. I also speak multiple languages, have a wide variety of interests, have lived and traveled all over the world despite my young age, and am a very logical/rational thinker as well. Obsessed with my dog. I know myself well and what does and doesn’t work for me. I often get told I’m mature/wise for my age. I’m Type A, career-oriented, high achieving, loyal, loving, playful, silly, energetic, generous, curious, extroverted, and very social.

If you’re still here - thanks for making it this far. Now, a bit about you - you must be first and foremost emotionally available and intelligent. I need someone I can connect with on many levels. Excellent communicator, thoughtful, caring, loyal, loving, strong sense of self. Must love dogs but have no pets (my dog = my child). Must want children. Mention the word dog in your first message to me. You must crave emotional intimacy and connection. Loyal, kind, devoted. High IQ and ideally successful and/or passionate in your career/pursuits. I don’t care how much money you make or how tall you are. Any ethnicity. Must be active and in decent shape (anywhere from dad bod to abs). Must not be intimated by a tall, successful, beautiful and outgoing woman! Huge plus if you are kinky on the Dom side of things, but not absolutely necessary (but you must at least in part enjoy leading/being in control during intimacy).

Message me if this post speaks to you. If you don’t fit the description of what I’m looking for - don’t waste my time! (but best of luck out there ;) )