I'm a married man looking for easy conversations that could potentially lead to friendship, which could potentially lead to benefits.

I have black hair, brown eyes, smooth skin, 5'8" 160lbs. I have a 40 " chest and a 29" waist. I am clean shaven and have a nice head of hair. I don't have tattoos or piercings. I'm educated from top schools and probably have more degrees than most people. I work in tech but my passion is real estate. I am equally comfortable being a t-shirt and jeans guy or getting dressed up in a suit and tie. Or on days when I don't care, which is most days during covid with WFH, I'll just opt to wear a hoodie, jeans and a pair of Jordan 1s.

I like coffee over tea, android over iPhones. Pineapple belongs on pizza. Socks with sandals is a no. Grammar and spelling are important. As for hobbies, I enjoy working out, mahjong, tennis, chess, and Rubik's cube. I'm a polyglot, in human languages and computer languages. I don't smoke or do drugs, though I do drink socially. I clean the lint trap every time. I'm neat, organized, and I recycle religiously. I believe in climate change and I put money where my mouth is and drive an electric car and bike when I can. I make it a point to tip my servers well. Ultimately I try to leave the world better than I found it.

My ideal partner is someone also married with kids who's done this before. Excellent OPSEC and discretion. What I find attractive on a woman is maturity and humility, just like me. I'm weird I know, for a man to not be superficial. While a pretty face is nice, it's a dime a dozen. Easy going personality is rare especially in the context of reddit, and is something I treasure immensely. Our conversations should be flirty, genuine, with an open heart and mind. I would never make you feel like you're competing against other women for my attention, and hopefully vice versa. You're not just a fish in the sea and I want you to feel respected. What I want is an emotional connection, appreciation, and trust i.e. the foundation of any beautiful relationship. So, ultimately looking for a conversationalist that makes us feel good about ourselves and make our worlds brighter again. So, my ideal partner is one who is authentic, genuine, and has sincere intentions of finding a lasting AP. That to me, is beautiful.

Please send me a chat if interested. You have nothing to lose, but a world of possibilities to gain.