I crave the newness, flirting, lust, and excitement. I’m not in a rush and want to develop a mental connection. I want to be excited when I see a message with your name.

I'm married, in a mostly amazing marriage, but in a dead bedroom (medical reasons).
I have a such good, happy life, but I don’t want to live without passion and intimacy anymore.
I want a lover. A part-time boyfriend :)
I want someone who is married/attached, but like me is missing passion and excitement, and wants a girlfriend, part-time : )

I want sparks and chemistry. I want fun easy chat and an easy, respectful organic flow to sexier chat.
I appreciate those who ask thought-provoking questions and show genuine interest. Meaningful connections, for me, start with a curious mind and engaging conversations.

You:
Preferably aged 40-60. I am open to some variation. My ideal match is in his mid-40s - mid-50s, good shape, fit, intellectual, professional, successful.
Be within an hour of the East Bay Area. I eventually want to meet irl.
Be HWP. Fit. Educated. Well groomed. Straight clean teeth.
Have the time and means to do this, as I do. (Affairs cost time and money.)
Willing to put in the effort to create amazing experiences together.

Me:
Aged 49
East Bay Area California.
HWP. 5’7, 160. Thick. Fit. Athletic.
Attractive. stylish. Educated. Well groomed. Well traveled.
I am kind, sweet, witty. Good-natured sarcastic humor. But, I tend to match energy.
I’m passionate and intense, but also don’t take myself too seriously. I laugh easily and often.I’m very sexual, intense, adventurous, expressive, and communicative.
Insatiable.
I am kinky and adventurous.

If anyone out there exists who can hold a good conversation, wants to help me explore my kinkier side, and doesn't live over 100 miles away please get in touch!

I would like to chat on Reddit to see if we vibe, and then move to Telegram.
Please put your age in your response.