I know this is not common but hear me out. I think people who use reddit are my type. I am friends with people that I met through Reddit but none through dating apps. That tells me something. So here I am.

I am 32 years old, brown, 5'2, 170 pounds. I am on a journey to become fit that doesn't necessarily mean losing weight, but getting stronger. I am independent, spontaneous when it comes to weekend plans and travel, a bit restless indoors and like to wander outdoors, into hiking, national parks and chasing new experiences. I am currently trying to get into winter activities and adventure sports. I read a lot of fiction but struggle with non fiction. I love spending time walking around cute downtowns and bookshops in general. I am mostly vegetarian but love chicken wings. I enjoy exploring new cuisines and dishes.

I work in tech and obsessive about work even if I hate it at the moment. I am introverted until I get comfortable. I am kind, empathetic and always try to see the good in people. Oh, and I am also kinky AF.

I will l stop with my description now. I got out of a three years old relationship six months ago. I thought I had found the "one" but maybe there isn't one, just a bunch of possibilities that needs work to make them the "one".

I would like to meet someone fit, intelligent and kind with similar interests who can hold a good conversation. Although the end goal is a relationship, I know things sometimes work and sometimes it doesn't. So no pressure in the beginning. Just looking for some fun dates and experiences that have potential to grow into a relationship.

I currently live in San Jose and would make things easier if you are around here. No married or attached men. Also I am not looking for discrete fun. I already have friends for that.

Most likely, I am going to end up receiving a bunch of dick pics but also hoping to be pleasantly surprised.