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49 [M4M] #Oakland - Want a gay affair
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SmoggyWombat is a male age 49 looking for a male in Oakland, CA
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I'm a 49yo guy in an unsatisfying marriage to a woman. I'm well past "bi-curious" and am realizing that I'm probably more gay than bi, but for various reasons don't want to change things at home right now. I'm looking for a guy -- maybe someone else in a similar situation -- for an ongoing gay affair. Sex, of course, but also friendship and emotional intimacy. I've done hookups and just don't find sex without a connection very fulfilling.

I'm kind of nerdy, a bit shy at first. Into music, games, books, and have a somewhat dry sense of humor. 6' 200, blonde/blue with glasses.

In bed, I'm a total bottom. Love to be submissive and service oriented. I like guys that are confident, dominant, but kind. Men who know what they want and take charge are very attractive. I prefer guys who are 40 -- nothing against all the hot younger men out there, but I just find I connect better with guys around my age.

Looking forward to chatting!

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