I'd like to boost the sexual confidence of a younger woman through gradual exposure in a nurturing environment. Create comfort in the unfamiliar, explore without overthinking, and make sexual exploration generally more playful and approachable. Start to tap into your own desires, feel confident enough to pursue them, and demand more of anyone lucky enough to share in your sexiness.

Many people create new year's resolutions for their physical self, but it's also a good time to examine the sexual and sensual being you'd like to explore and become in 2024. I'd like to be the (free) personal trainer of the sensual realm exposing, refining, and guiding you towards those goals. Building confidence through exposure, setting more upfront expectations and a lot more conversation than typical dating situations, and providing the right mixture of stepping out of your comfort zone while feeling nurtured through the adventure.

I've encountered women who:

• feel disconnected from their sexual desires, numbed by years of someone else's projected wants
• want to be more present in her own arousal shared with a partner
• want to tune into, and act upon, emerging desires. especially with someone who can refine and guide an experience
• be more comfortable in the experience, in the many forms that comfort might manifest
• are curious to start exploring but might be unsure how to get started (and if anyone would be patient enough, nurturing, and interested)

The semi-anonymity of online forums and chats creates space for exploration, and questioning what's possible, before any in-person encounters. Are you a lesbian curious to explore men? Recently out of a relationship and redefining many things? Disappointed with dating in general and want a more direct pursuit (or discovery) of your desires?

I'm 44 years old, single, straight, live in San Francisco, and may be interested in traveling to you. I expect we'll have deep conversations online and in-person to reveal the nature of your desires and personalized areas of potential exploration. I'm easy-going, patient, have a curious mind, and I've been told I'm perceptive. I'm an experienced masseur, enjoy cuddling, have taken classes on fingering techniques, stroked clit during orgasmic meditation sessions, have made women shake uncontrollably with delight, and have enjoyed discovering her many kinks. I'd like to make the world a sexier place and have more fun, casual hangouts in the process.

An ideal woman contacting me is curious to take more risks and explore her sensuality once she feels safe and supported yet respectfully challenged. She has a few goals in mind, like any opportunity to stretch beyond the familiar, but those goals could be as simple as tuning in to her desire and learning more about what she enjoys. She wants to be intentional, not just random, in her sensual pursuits. Tap into your cravings. Cast off the restraints of your past as you become more comfortable in your own skin and with what you have to offer.

Let's chat and explore what you might like to experience, even if you're not sure you'll ever go through with it, and connect with your desire over chat or in person as you grow more comfortable.