Im married, in a mostly amazing marriage. But in a dead bedroom (medical reasons). We have an understanding that I get my needs met elsewhere. Something I have not done in a very long time.
I have such a good, happy life, but some days I miss passion and sex so much I want to cry.
I don’t want to live without regular amazing sex anymore.

I want a lover. I want sparks and chemistry.
Words and language matter.
I want a fun texter and sexter. (Because thats our main form of communication).
I want anticipation and lust...foreplay that starts a week before..
I want fun dates where we fuck like we love each other.
Passion, Intimacy. Fireworks.
But I will never want more than sexy fun.

I am Kind. Sweet. Witty.
Good-natured sarcastic humor. But, I tend to match energy.
I’m passionate and intense, but also don’t take myself too seriously.
I laugh easily and often.
I’m very sexual, intense, adventurous, expressive and communicative.
Insatiable.

You:
Preferably aged 40-60.( My dream man would be mid to late 50’s, great shape. Professional. Successful. Intellectual.) But I'm open to some variation.
Please be within an hour from East Bay Area. I want to meet irl eventually.
Be HWP. Fit. Healthy.
Educated. Well groomed. Straight clean teeth.
Have the time and means to do this.
Willing to put in the effort to create amazing experiences together.
Good sense of humor.

Me:
Aged 49
East Bay Area California.
HWP. 5’7, 160. Thick. Very Fit. Athletic.
Attractive. Educated. Stylish. Well groomed.
Incredible sense of humor, very humble too ;)

I’m not in a rush and want to develop a connection. I want to spend a decent amount of time chatting first before meeting irl.

If anyone out there exists who can hold a good conversation, wants to help me explore my kinkier side, and doesn't live over 100 miles away. please get in touch!
Let create some memories we cant share :)