First, a few key points:

Read the whole ad. Please don’t shoot your shot if you aren’t what I’m looking for. I’m sexual, but not desperate and I’m looking for a good match, physically and mentally.

I am not in SF yet. I arrive in mid-January and will be in town for over a week. I’ll be in a nice hotel in SOMA. You’d have to travel to me.

I’m starting the search early because it’s very specific and might take a while to find the right fit, physically and mentally.

My husband is not a cuck. We are stag/vixen, meaning that he likes to share me, because, well, he can. There is zero part of this that is about humiliating my husband.

I’m in my mid-40s. No one would expect that I am as sexual as I am. I have a good job, look and act like your average suburban wife, and am a generally upstanding citizen. I have a huge libido and my husband encourages me to seek out company when I travel. He loves hearing stories and seeing photos or videos of my escapades. They’re only for personal use and only my face is shown.

Unfortunately he’s been away for work for a while now and I’m all pent up. My upcoming trip is the perfect time for me to find some company. He told me that he’d love for me to find someone who is comfortable being vocal and being on camera who would enjoy talking dirty while we enjoy one another’s company. I can get into more detail when we chat, but it’s nothing too weird, I promise.

More about me: plus sized—about 315, a size 3x/22-24. Big ass, belly, and thighs. Feminine, long hair, lover of lingerie and lipstick. I’m very confident in my body. I am smart and funny and pretty charming.

I need to like the guy I’m sleeping with, so being cute and hung isn’t the end all be all for me. You need to be respectful and nice. Smart, engaging, and able to hold a conversation. I need to be comfortable with you. Late 20s-mid-50s. Bonus points for tall, beards, ink, sturdy, well endowed, stamina, and able to go multiple rounds. I won’t complain if you’re good with your hands and tongue. Please don’t be selfish in bed—I’m not. DDF and condoms are a must.

We will talk about this in more detail, but ideally you’d be comfortable with giving light degradation, perhaps some spanking and other related things. Nothing too wild. You have to be comfortable being vocal and game for being filmed on my cell. It will just be you and me.

Also, please be attracted to big women. I want you to love all my chub; to grab and squeeze it. I love my body and I need you to love it too.

If you’ve gotten this far and are serious and interested, send me a chat. Thoughtful, well written replies with photos go to the front of the line. 2 sentences is lazy and wont get a reply.