Hey there, 28M here whose at a new point in my life where I am making a lot of changes. I've come to realize my way of life hasn't been whats best for me and I'm looking to find someone dealing with a similar situation.

I am on a self-improvement journey. Currently I am on a weight loss journey (down 20Ibs for my 40Ibs goal!). I am also working toward fixing the flaws I don't enjoy in my personality like indecisiveness and not following through with goals. It would be great to find someone who shares similar goals of self-improvement. Let's set some goals we both have for next year and let's hold each other accountable. I want to find a friend who is just starting there self-improvement journey as well so we can see each others progress throughout the friendship. Most importantly, I want to build a non-judgemental friendship with someone so we can share our thoughts without feeling the need to put on a fake mask for a friend.

To share what I am looking also for, I have found I have a hypersexual mindset and would like to find a partner to explore my sexual thoughts with. If you have some kinks you've been afraid to explore with someone, I'd love to hear them and explore them with you as well. I'm not much of a looker, so I prefer to find someone who may also feel like they aren't a 10/10 on the hot scale as well. Finding someone with matching curiousity is much more important to me than appearance.

A little about me: I've been learning to cook more to help with my healthy eating. I am currently experimenting on how to make the best homemade bagel in the world! I also need new recipes to try so please give me some suggestions. I enjoy reading fantasy and romance books. Mistborne has been the book I've read through at least 4 times now. I'm just starting getting into romance with a few book recommendations. Maybe we could do a mini book club if you've got something you are dying to read with a friend. I play a lot of Fallout, Legend of Zelda, Animal Crossing and League of legends if you are looking for a gaming friend as well. Besides that try to bowl each week so I don't get too rusty at my go to sport. If you have any hobbies you enjoy I'd love to learn more about them!

I am looking for a shy soul like me. If you are someone who feels alone or struggle to make friends then I am with you! I have a thing for those who are nerdy and quiet over those who enjoy loud parties. And if you game, cook, or read during your free time then you and I will get along just fine. Besides that just bring yourself as you are and I would love to meet that person. Please be 24 .

I hope my post has reached out to someone in the Bay area, if it sounds like something you'd be interested in then reach out! Thanks for reading and I hope you have a great day!