I'd like to increase the sexual confidence of a younger woman through patient exposure in a nurturing environment. Break out of an expressive rut and learn to be more expressive or adventurous. You need someone to introduce you to new possibilities, challenge you in a nurturing way, and patiently (re)build your confidence and inherent sexiness. A free personal trainer for the sensual realm.

Step out of your comfort zone and start to explore your own preferences free from the projections of someone else's wants and needs. Tap into your cravings and desires, even if you're unsure you'd ever go through with the exploration. Cast off the restraints of your past as you become more comfortable in your own skin and with what you have to offer.

I'm 40 years old, single, live in San Francisco, able to host, and may be interested in traveling to you. I expect we'll have deep conversations online and in-person to reveal the nature of your desires and personalized areas of potential exploration. I'm easy-going, patient, have a curious mind, and I've been told I'm perceptive. I'm an experienced masseur, enjoy cuddling, have taken classes on fingering techniques, stroked clit during orgasmic meditation sessions, have made women shake uncontrollably with delight, and have enjoyed discovering her many kinks.

I've encountered women who had no reasons not to feel sexy but felt shy or lacking exposure to the things she liked. Past relationships or hookups might have zapped her energy or atrophied her more expressive sexual side. She'd like to escape the restrictions of her past and start exploring but might be unsure how to get started (and if anyone would be patient enough, nurturing, and interested).

An ideal woman contacting me is curious to take more risks and explore her sensuality once she feels safe and supported yet respectfully challenged. Young and curious, recently out of a relationship and wanting to explore, or newly self aware enough to try new things. She has a few goals in mind, like any opportunity to stretch beyond the familiar, but those goals could be as simple as tuning in to her desire and learning more about what she enjoys. Let's chat and explore what you might like to experience, even if you're not sure you'll ever go through with it, and connect with your desire over chat or in person as you grow more comfortable.