Hey there, I am a late 20s man whose at a new point in my life where I am making a lot of changes. My ex and I broke up a few months ago and it has left me feeling alone and craving Intimacy. While the hard feelings that come with a big break up still come and go, its time I start focusing on growth and self-improvement. I am not ready for a relationship at this moment in time. Instead I'd rather find a likeminded friend who is looking for a self-improvement partner as well.

I'm looking for someone who might be in a similar situation or feels like they need someone to help them improve as well. I click well with those who might be more insecure or dealing with problems because I to have been struggling a lot with some internal insecurities. I'd like to find someone to be open about what is difficult in life and see if we could support each other. While I would like to find someone open to sexual relations and exploration, it is not a requirement. I'm mainly looking for friendly intimacy with another person struggling in life as well.

A little about me: I've been learning to cook to help save on money and still make some delicious meals. I enjoy reading fantasy and romance books and would love to find someone to have a mini book club with. I'm getting more into physical excersize to gain some muscle. I played a lot of video games and TV but I'll be working toward reducing my time on screens due to them being a distraction from fixing my problems. I also am looking to find and join new hobbies in the area, if you have one you enjoy I'd love to learn more about it!

I connect well with people who enjoy smaller settings over large groups. Someone who prefers hanging out in the park or coffee shop for friendly talks. I don't judge people for where they are in life because I myself hate when people judge me for my actions. Just looking for an authentic connection with a fellow human being.

I hope my post has reached out to someone in the Bay area, if it sounds like something you'd be interested in then reach out! Thanks for reading and I hope you have a great day!