Do you feel shy sexually, stuck in a rut, or feel the pursuit of your desires has atrophied after unfulfilling relationships? What if you could privately discover and explore your desires, build up your sexual confidence, and start to demand more of your sex life?

I'd like to create a comfortable environment of exploration and exposure. A personal trainer for the sensual realm. Someone who would like to learn more about where you're at today, a few of your goals or curiosities, and what you think might be holding you back. You can expect precise questions, challenging what you think is possible, and presenting the correct level of challenge as you stretch your comfort zones. Step out and explore, with the semi-anonymity of online chat and experiences outside of your typical friend circles.

In the randomness of dating I've discovered women who:

• Wanted to spend more time being present in her own arousal and the basics of physically exploring someone
• Have recurring fantasies during sessions of self pleasure but are unsure how to explore those fantasies and make them happen
• Want to escape scripted behaviors or past patterns, rediscovering herself

These situations require more patience, nurturing, and focus than the expectations of the dating arena typically provide. Create the focus, explore and grow your sexual self, and redefine the expectations of all the relationships that follow.

I'm 40 years old, single, live in San Francisco, able to host, and may be interested in traveling to you. I expect we'll have deep conversations online and in-person to reveal the nature of your desires and personalized areas of potential exploration. I'm easy-going, patient, have a curious mind, and I've been told I'm perceptive. I'm an experienced masseur, enjoy cuddling, have taken classes on fingering techniques, stroked clit during orgasmic meditation sessions, have made women shake uncontrollably with delight, and have enjoyed discovering her many kinks.

An ideal woman contacting me is curious to take more risks and explore her sensuality once she feels safe and supported yet respectfully challenged. She has a few goals in mind, like any opportunity to stretch beyond the familiar, but those goals could be as simple as tuning in to her desire and learning more about what she enjoys. Let's chat and explore what you might like to experience, even if you're not sure you'll ever go through with it, and connect with your desire over chat or in person as you grow more comfortable.