When I was 24 or 25, I met a woman that was twice my age. I was extremely attracted to her mentally and physically, and I begged for her to go out with me. She finally agreed, but only if I would be willing to follow certain groundrules. She wanted to be explicitly in charge, and I would do what she wanted any time she asked. I eagerly accepted her terms, and happily took the submissive role with her. We saw each other for a few brief months, but it was life changing for me.

I learned so much, and not all of it was easy to quantify. I gained a ton of confidence in myself, because I better understood what it meant to be a good partner, a good listener, a good pleaser. She taught me how to please a woman - and gave me plenty of opportunities to practice pleasuring her. But she also helped me learn a ton about my own body, and how my own pleasure worked. I learned a lot about relationships in general, even from our very casual one.

I have always thought about how enjoyable and rewarding it would be to share something like this with a young woman - to give back. Now I'm ready to find the right person to do just that - the Ds component is possible, but not essential to me.

I'm educated, a published writer, make my living as a chef, and I'm more than just a sexual being. I also travel a lot - both domestically and to Europe. I am happily married, but in an open situation. You will not be a secret. But, also, you should understand that I am not interested in changing my situation - so there are limits to what is possible long term. I would like for us to get to know each other as real 3 dimensional people.

I am 5'11, ht/ wt proportionate, fit, but not a perfect gym body. Pics available for trade privately.

Please tell me a little about you if this situation interests you. I don't have a specific type of woman in mind. My goal is to meet an interesting person to share something special with.