I'm mainly attracted to men but am presently in a sexless marriage to a woman. I'm well beyond "bi-curious", more like “gay probably”, but for now have to stay in the closet.
I’d like to find one guy (maybe in a similar situation) for an ongoing gay affair: great sex, of course, but also friendship, affection, and connection. I've had both mild and pretty wild experiences with men, but one-time hookups leave me feeling a lot of regret. NSA just isn't for me; I'd like to find someone who also prefers a few "strings".
I'm an introverted, kind of geeky guy who's really attracted to confident, outgoing, dominant men. Patience and a sense of humor are also good -- you might need to draw me out of my shell a bit at the beginning. I work in tech and am into the usual nerd hobbies: games, sci-fi books/tv/film, music, and cars. I’m a submissive total bottom in the bedroom and like guys who take charge sexually, but who also like to kiss and cuddle.
I'm 49, 6ft, 210lbs., average build, blonde/blue. Guys have told me I have a cute butt. My ideal match is someone who's 40 , in decent shape, and a dominant total top. Older silver daddies and nerdy black guys are my kryptonite. Safe and discreet only.
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