After years of exploring, both in and outside of monogamous relationships, I am realizing that I need to be able to fully express my freaky, insatiable, sexually creative side within a relationship. As someone who is bi and enjoys group play (threesomes, foursomes) every once in a while, this full exploration will inevitably involve other people, at some point. I'm hoping to find someone else who feels similarly and might eventually (not right away--as in, we could wait months or even years before we do this) want to explore these things together. Emphasis on eventually, because I'd like to build a loving, trusting, comfortable emotionally safe relationship with one another before we get anyone else involved, and you can't force a specific timeline for something like that.
I'd also love to meet someone with an open mind, a warm heart and an appetite for adventure. Being able to appreciate nature and physical activity together are two things I value a lot (I surf, run, swim, cycle, lift weights--open to trying other activities too, though). Appreciating film, travel, books, hole-in-the-wall restaurants, bodies of water, picnics, plants, animals and the moon would be nice too. I'm multiracial, and I'd love to meet someone else who is mixed and/or self-identifies as a POC, but that's not necessarily a must for me if you are aware, down, and unafraid to talk about race. Openness to kids in the future would be nice as well...but really (truly) not in any rush to get there, and I'm definitely open to discussing this with more nuance/detail.
Physically speaking, I have dark hair, brown eyes, light tan skin, groomed stubble, a handful of tattoos, broad shoulders, strong arms, a defined chest and a runner's lower body. 5'7", 160 lbs. If you send me a chat or a message, I'm happy to send additional pictures and talk more in detail about myself (like my background, job, etc.). Bay Area born and raised, working in community health, senior dog dad, plant lover, film nerd, silly and lighthearted, but also with a serious, passionate fiery side are some of my basics.
Me: https://imgur.com/a/ljnzhrl
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