22 AFAB here, I identify as nonbinary, and posting looking for friends or dates! Not looking for hookups or flings, thank you.
Just looking for people to check out cool things with, or have a nice date with. I've been looking into a bunch of happy hour places (not even to drink, I just like good food without it costing an arm and a leg,) and beaches or fun spots I've been wanting to check out with someone, and my current buddy won't do them with me.
So instead of sitting around moping over things I can't control, I figured I'd prioritize what I can! And I can make friends! Right?
I wanna do fun shit, like axe throwing, going to cool arcade bars popping up around town, or even just talking casually online in free time. I get so many tickets to free movie showings, festivals, or otherwise, plus I know so many free or discount places to enjoy, and I want company for them! Like going to a nice italian spot for their cheap happy hour pizza and pasta deals followed by painting in a rose garden, or someone to take with me to an occult festival or cosplay ball or something.
About me: ENFP, according to some app quiz I took. 5 ft 7, Black, AFAB, 130 pounds, and usually can be found face down in bed, because my potential ADHD gets in my way, or cleaning my place.
Niche things about me that others might be able to bond over:
- Currently hyperfixated on succulents. These motherfuckers are COOL. Like, they're like fleshy green plants that look like roses, with leaves that feel like grapes, are hard as HELL to kill, and they deadass just drop leaves that turn into offspring and create lil succulent babies. Imagine thinking your plant is dying, when it's really just "Yooo this is tight, lemme drop one of my limbs and make a little homie out of my limb, Adam and Eve style, to have them join in on this lavish ass environment." FUCK yeah. I could be rotted in my bed for a month, and no matter how ass life ever got, my plants were FLOURISHING. That's pleasant as hell to me!
- Autistic, fuck yeah! And other things. :D
- I like things like Junji Ito, movies where the main characters are psychopathic, (i.e. Gone Girl, Pearl, etc) and I wanna get back into doing special effects horror makeup. I loved it as a teen, paused it during high school. Ironically, I don't exactly have the attention span or stomach to watch horror much lately, but having a movie buddy helps! I'm into thrillers more, or movies like Midsommar, Carrie, Creep 2 and 1 (in that order), and The Fly. Ironically, I don't like most horror, but read on, to learn why I like horror.
- Psychology is one of my favorite subjects, for a lot of reasons. It's led to a big interest in cults, horror films (the most representation for topics such as SA, mental disorders, disabilities...), and killer backstory videos.
- Been wanting to make my own cookbook just for myself (and to pass on to future generations/friends in need) recently, and want to try making one new food a month! Fun fact: you can replace the water needed in a box cake mix with milk, to make it taste better. And secret tip:>! add cinnamon or allspice to almost any box cake mix, then tell people it's your special family cake recipe. It's technically not a lie, since the special part is that you didn't get it from family at all!!< The cake is a lie. :D
- I'm an open book and don't have much I don't wanna talk about, really!
Anything I don't wanna deal with?
- Anyone who is into barely legal/can debate about the age of consent.
- Condescension.
- Anti-mask/anti-vaxx people. You do you, just eight (or eighty) feet from me!
- People who do that thing where they don't cover their mouth to cough or sneeze, and just freely hack and spit into the air. Yall make me UNCOMFORTABLE. That's a habit that should've been dropped after age 4, or age 12, maximum.
- Sticks in the mud. Like if your gut reaction is to say "This is stupid/childish/etc", instead of "Fuck yeah" to even the most harmless of things, then hell no. I'd find a grown man or woman with a hoard of stuffed animals or an obsession with The Sims more interesting than an "Idk, I just stay inside and check snap ig and drink" type of person, lol. But that doesn't mean people with no hobbies or nothing to do aren't fun! If anything, as long as you're down to try new things optimistically then that's great.
I'm open to most things! You can be whatever age, but ideally if you're the age or demographic where I can say something like "schizoposting hours from the padded room to the little gay people in my phone", or "im a sleep-pilled slumbercel, the haters cant STAND me taking a small little snooze", "ever been to a noise music party?", or some other dumb shit like that, then we'll get along great.
To prove you're real, along with your stats (height, weight, age, race, gender if you feel like,) feel free to either tell me the best thing going on in your life right now, or something on your bucket list! Thanks for reading! :D
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