We aren’t gonna have any problem enjoying our vacation, but some sexy fun would put a cherry on top!

About us generally: 39 F and 37 M in a poly relationship, attractive, average builds with some mom-and-dad-bod features, super easygoing, GGG, focused on consent and enthusiasm. He’s 420 friendly, I’m not (gives me anxiety every time). I have tomboyish short hair and a lot of tattoos — think alt milf. He has dreamy long hair usually up in a bun, cute glasses, and a trimmed beard. I lived in SF for several years, so I know my way around.

Interest wise between the two of us we are into stuff like food, cooking, climbing, mountain biking, design, travel, offbeat comedy, music, camping, and self-reflection, among many others. Negative STI tests recently for me (March), less recent for him but only slept with one other person since last testing (safer sex, known and trusted person).

What do we look for in a prospective play partner? Of course we each have our own things we’re individually drawn to, but also neither have a Type. Generally attracted to average / athletic build, age 30 , I have a moderate aversion to long beards, and a stronger aversion to cigarette smoking. Dick size is not a special qualifying criteria for us. Cis/trans/nb all welcome. Condoms a must for penetrative sex - btw I have some internal (“female”) condoms!

Most of all we care about a good vibe, very good communication, great practices around consent, and someone who likes to be present and engaged in the moment. Open to kink or vanilla, but specifically not looking for bull or cuck dynamics. Bi play between guys would be great, but also can totally respect boundaries if straight.

We’re in town Sun 5/7 and leave the evening of Fri 5/12, staying in the Castro. Could host, or travel within SF or maybe nearby radius if accessible.

Who’s game?