I'm going to cut to the chase & save you the task of reading my lengthy post. You don't have the time, seeing as how there're hundreds of other M4W posts here for you to choose from.

To put it bluntly:

I AM AN UNSPECTACULAR, HUSKY, UNCOMPLICATED 26 YEAR OLD WHO SPLITS HIS TIME BETWEEN GOING TO CLASS FULL-TIME AND WORKING UNGLAMOROUS SERVICE JOBS TO PAY FOR AN EVER-GROWING TUTION/RENT. WHILE I LIVE IN THE DORMS HERE ON CAMPUS, A HEAVY WORKLOAD COVID RESTRICTION HAVE KEPT ME FROM ANY SORT OF DATING LIFE.

I AM NOT SOME TATTOOED, BODYBUILDING, TECH MILLIONAIRE, TONY STARK-TYPE THAT'S COMICALLY HUNG AND HUNGRY TO STROKE YOU INTO OBLIVION IN MY LAVISH EMPTY PENTHOUSE.

*This is my summation of the ideal man some on Reddit are dreaming about. I am not him.*

If I haven't lost you by now, you may not value those surface-level characteristics as highly as others. I work when not in class and try to meet new people in between commitments. It's time-consuming and often unfruitful. I'm moving past that "simple jobs for a paycheck" phase and onto a career I'm passionate about. I have these long-developing goals that I sacrifice certain momentary luxuries for. That's not an excuse for being single, I guess, but I've just now recently progressed to a point in my self-development that I'm ready to make an effort to meet someone.

I'm aware that any post longer than 3 paragraphs is basically considered a chore for the typical lurker here, but I figure you should have a brief but clear understanding of where I'm coming from and why. The hope is that you are then better informed and thus more confident should you choose to indulge your curiosity and message me.

So for a cruder insight, I'll boil myself down to classic online criteria:

My "stats"-

6'0 ft.

210 lbs. (Lifting Dad Bod)

Mexican/Dutch/German/Chinese

6 in.

Have a car & am mobile

Can Host

Social Drinker

420-Friendly

Drug, Drama, & Disease Free

The title calls for a BBW but that's more in hopes of attracting a state of mind or a particular attitude. I'm in search of a woman who is understanding of what it feels like to be overlooked and/or under-appreciated. Not someone who identifies as these seemingly negative characteristics but is capable of empathizing with those feelings. I feel like it induces a humble and down-to-earth sensibility that is easy to get along with. That can be anyone with the capacity to have a deep connection with someone beyond a quick shallow judgement of them....if that makes sense.

Reach out. The risk v.s reward is completely in your favor. Nothing to loose but something potentially great to gain.