So I sit here on Reddit pondering what to do after 3 1/2 years of partial success dating as a bisexual woman in her early 40s. I did open up to casual hook ups with women before. Not fulfilling. Stopped doing that. No depth, no connection, boring.
I did date as a couple within my FM relationship. Not fulfilling. those who approached were mostly women who werenât truly bi: rather than having a genuine desire for the F they focus more on the M part (they treat the bi FF part more superficially, sort of as an accessory to their MF dating experience that theyâre more used to).
I really want to date women whoâre truly into other women and whoâd also like to build a close FF relationship. Some meaning, some depth, some regularity, some basic commitment to where itâs worth both of our time. Attraction, sexual chemistry, you know - not just âI like you as a friendâ kind of thing. More like - âI wanna get you hot & bothered and fulfill your sexual desires for a womanâ, and Iâm experienced :)
To torture myself, I still keep posting F4F ads, hoping that a brave woman will venture out of her comfort zone and truly see/meet another woman halfway one day. Until then...
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