I'm a down to earth married Chinese American man looking for a lasting relationship with someone local. Life is really great as a professional in the Silicon Valley but I'm missing intimacy at home. My friends would describe me as smart and generous. For instance I speak 5 languages, including Cantonese, Mandarin, Japanese and Spanish, with various levels of proficiency and my graduate degree is from one of the top schools in the country. My ex's would describe me as sexy, handsome and a chivalrous gentleman, since though I'm of adequate height, at one point I did some modeling work. I'm fit and live a healthy lifestyle. I exercise religiously and don't drink/smoke/do drugs. My ex's would also say I have great sexual stamina. I have a good sense of humor and I'm a very supportive and respectful partner. Ask me for a dad joke! I'm a compassionate people person, and try very hard to please my partner because I care immensely about the people in my life. I'm honest and humble, qualities that don't bode well for personal ads. But I'm wonderful once you get to know me, I promise!

My ideal woman is one who is looking for a lasting relationship with only one partner and is emotionally available. It'd be great if you were smart and can challenge me, as I would with you. I'm looking for a good communicator and a flirty conversationalist with whom to chat daily to build that emotional connection and trust. I'm also looking for occasional meetups, so ideally you are local. I especially appreciate someone caring and emotionally mature and know what they want and ideally has done this before. Though not required, I find someone hwp, petite, long hair, with a warm smile to be attractive. Not looking to change our situations. I'm open to age, though 30-50 I assume would work best. I don't have a preference in terms of ethnicity, but I think a lot of people are not very open minded, so I think asians may be a better cultural fit. I suppose I crave someone feminine who can match my masculine energies.

I make a great candidate for your next AP. Send me a chat and I am confident you won't be disappointed. Let's get to know each other!