Hello. I'm Bunny! (⁠◍⁠•⁠ᴗ⁠•⁠◍⁠)⁠❤

I am a tall ^(69") redhead, usually described as having a very sweet & bubbly demeanor, and I am looking for a partner! I have some pictures of myself on this account, my Bloom profile, and my FetLife, if that is important for you.

I am demisexual, meaning I am not sexually attracted to people, or comfortable engaging sexually, until I have a deep emotional connection with them first. Please be respectful of this, it might take me a bit to warm up.

That being said, the kinks I'm specifically looking to engage in (once that connection has been established) are CG/l, ageplay, hypnosis, sadomasochism (impact play, chemical play, etc), intoxication play, edging/orgasm control, cock worship, petplay, a few types of edgeplay, and primalplay.

Bolded kinks are those I am making a special effort to engage with at this time, and ideally my partner is comfortable and/or experienced with them, but in no way is this a requirement.

Because I don't want to be misleading: as far as logistics go, I am looking to start online until I feel safe enough to go on a date, which would ideally be in a public place or munch - Wicked Grounds is my usual go-to.

As far as types of relationships/dynamics go - I'm not looking for anything in particular, but across the board I require my partners to be communicative about their feelings and willing to build rapport with me prior to playing. NSA is 100% okay with me, as long as that is made explicitly clear from the beginning. I do not typically enjoy hookups.

About you!

Non-negotiables:

You are my age or older, articulate, and kind. You like being clean and taking care of your health! (IE: you shower, brush your teeth at least twice a day, wear clean clothes, and eat vegetables voluntarily.)

Your beard is no more than 1" long at the most, you do not drink/do drugs in excess with regularity (IE: every day/every other day, at least around me,) and you do not smell or taste like cigarettes (or smoke them when we're spending time together.) These are trauma related, and unfortunately not something I'm able to compromise on.

You like full-figured women! You neither fetishize BBW nor find it unattractive.

You are not aggressive or intimidating in demeanor. You will frighten me if you're too strong at first and I will be hesitant to engage. Contradictorily, the slower you go, the faster I'll be able to open up.

You are more than willing to get regular STI checks and can provide me with proof, if we're intimate.

You are patient and understanding, comfortable explaining certain social cues explicitly to me, and you are not dismissive of my discomfort or boundaries.

If you are active in the kink community, I will be vetting you. If you aren't, it will take me longer to be comfortable meeting you, even just for coffee.

Less important to me, but still worth mentioning:

You are probably more masculine, and sometimes/usually like being called by a title, like Daddy, Master, Sir, etc after we establish a dynamic where it's appropriate. If we don't have a dynamic and you'd still like to be called by a title (if I feel you are deserving,) I am okay with Mister.

You probably have a career! That being said, the content of your character means more to me than what you have. Above all else, I prefer my partners to be motivated, organized to some degree, and able to communicate their needs and expectations without it feeling like pulling teeth.

You get bonus points if you're a teacher/professor, older than me (25-50), a parent, in therapy/staying on top of your mental health, active in your local kink community, and have a generally calming/reassuring/stable demeanor.

If you are poly, please DO NOT tell me about activities you and your other partners engage in, or how I might compare with them (positive or negative) as it makes me feel insecure and uncomfortable unless necessary until I feel secure about my place in your life. It's not a reflection of how much respect I have for your relationship, I'm just a big, sensitive baby!

About me!

I am a full time caregiver for my grandmother (who is living with mid-stage dementia), but I am training to be an activities director when my time working with her ends.

My pronouns are she/they, I am 23, and I am AFAB. I am poly and demi, and currently do have multiple partners, but I won't talk about them unless you have specific questions.

I am a little, submissive, pet, slave, exhibitionist, sadomasochist, primal prey, service sub, qualified good girl™, rope bunny, rigger, and general kinkster. When I'm in a switchy mood I lean soft dom.

My interests vary, but I am very much a creative! Art, cuisine, and history are big passions for me, but I have a borderline academic interest in kink. Ideally, you do too, because I love talking about it!

My political and ideological beliefs align most closely with democratic socialism, although I don't really like to label what I believe in with that broad a brush. The secret word is carrot, please mention it so I know you read my post. What I do know is I feel very supportive of the seven tenants of The Satanic Temple, and that seems to shine through in my political beliefs as well.

More about my physical appearance: while I am healthy and active (I love the outdoors and hiking in the redwoods!) I would be described as BBW, or plus sized. I will not be making changes to my lifestyle on your behalf.

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I do not like any nicknames/names of endearment/pet names/etc until I'm asked for permission, but I am always okay with Bun, BunBun, or Bunny! Ginger is also fine. I also do not like being offered physical touch in the form of roleplay. It makes me uncomfortable and I never know how to respond appropriately.

Fair warning - I am neurodivergent, so please be patient with me as I sometimes miss certain unspoken cues, or ask questions that may seem silly or stupid. I tend to be a very explicit communicator, and appreciate when other people communicate with me in the same way.

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I know this is kind of a lot, but it's all in an effort to be as straightforward about my preferences and expectations so I don't waste anyone's time! Most of these preferences (not all) are important to me if I want anything more than a FWB situation with someone. Please message me, for as curt as I may come across here, I'd like to think I'm a pretty kind person.

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