I’m a bisexual woman (in a longterm committed ENM relationship with a man) who needs women in her life. Although I’m satisfied sexually and emotionally with my long term male partner, I’m craving a genuine physical and psychological connection with a woman. That’s rare and hard to find. Yet I keep trying to find women. I’m looking for women only.

I share my male partner with women to whom I find myself attracted because for us playing together adds an element of kink and excitement to our lives. Also I’m open to going solo and forming an FF with a woman (she and he’d form a FM separately ) as long as we click and we establish trust and closeness.

As a fellow woman I understand your need to feel safe and comfortable with us as a couple. I have that need too - to feel safe, secure, and comfortable with a third partner - and I welcome you as an equal partner, not as an add-on. We will make sure that your needs are equally communicated, respected and met as well as our own needs are.

Building emotional intimacy with a third partner is important to us because we value trust, connection, friendship, and honesty. We prefer regularity over one night stands. Those qualities that make the sex enjoyable and the throuple partnership worth it are rarely found in ONS engagements. They require emotional maturity and experience the kind of which we have come to gain at our age (42&43) by dating as a throuple for several years now on top of being a couple for many years.

We don’t make compromises with our health and safety so STD testing is a must. So is verification btw, and before we exchange pictures or more personal details, we must be able to successfully verify and rule out the catfishers.

I prefer to vet potential female partners myself before involving him because if we women aren’t compatible, things won’t work out between the three of us. I’m not interested in heterosexual women who tolerate the presence of a woman with them. I want to meet my bisexual needs with a woman who’s fully attracted to and libidinous with other women.

While I am selective and doing the vetting, he is supporting me in my initiative for a shared partner and he is fully on board. He will introduce himself when we girls have established compatibility and a path toward.

Thanks for reading. Please send us a message if you’re interested and would like to found out more.

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