Feeling a little selfish right now. Not in a "service me" kind of way, but in more of a "this is what I want, let's not sugar coat it" sort of way.
I'm a 51 year old, bisexual, fuzzy, dad-bod having guy who is looking to connect with someone on a more than physical level. Even if it doesn't end up being something long term, I'm looking for someone(s) who challenge me on multiple levels. I don't want an imbalance in terms of taking the lead in the relationship, or in terms of affection or intimacy. Connection is about balance, not about dominance/submissiveness-- that can be PART of the connection, but shouldn't be the driving force behind it.
Communication is super important. I don't want to be the one driving the conversation or checking-in all the time. I'd like to feel needed as much as I want to express my needs.
And don't be afraid to laugh. If at least half our time together (naked and clothed) isn't spent laughing, then what's the point? Finding moments of joy and sharing them is just :: chef's kiss ::
This may sound super demanding/needy, but I was lucky enough to meet someone recently who showed me what balanced connection feels like, and I want more of that. So, I'm throwing down the gauntlet.
Reach out if you'd like to chat.
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