Awesome married dad seeking friendship and more. I'm a gentle, respectful man seeking a LOCAL partner to create our very own journey. I'm patient and looking to take things slow. The dynamic is all based on trust and it takes time to build. Whether you're looking for an AP, FWB or just a genuine confidant, as part of the journey I expect us to spend the time to get to know each other, build the friendship first, and see in what direction our chemistry blossoms.

My perfect partner is preferably someone married, ENM or otherwise, as married folks can understand the intricacies of the married life. Definitely someone local. Obviously someone open minded, with a sense of adventure and focused on self growth. You're looking for a fulfilling physical experience as well as emotional. You're constantly looking to grow as a person, and understands that curiosity is what keeps us young. You're sincere and looking for long term, especially since we're going to invest the time and emotions into it. We'll be vulnerable to each other, so you're not one who would ghost and play with my emotions, and I promise to take care of you likewise. In addition to rough, sensual sex, I look forwards to integrating into each other's lives. In due time, The fun is limitless.

Physical attraction is important, so I expect if we seem to be a match, we'll do a quick, time boxed video call (so we can verify without being awkward!), and progress from there. Just to give a general idea, I have black hair, brown eyes, fit and am a professional in the Silicon Valley. I consider myself an intellectual. A nerd perhaps. But it's just a fascade I put up to hide the freaky inside.

If this resonates with you, please reach out. If nothing else, we may make a friend. As an ice breaker...tell me about your search so far. Is reddit what it's rumored to be for r4r from a female's standpoint?