I want to find my second. I’m not looking for hookups or friends with benefits. I want to meet a man who can value me, spend time with me and treat me like a friend, and if romantic feelings arise, we can explore it. My husband is strait, we date separately. He accepts my polyamory and meeting him is a requirement, he wants to know he can trust you with his nesting partner. We like to make friends, and see where things go.

I’m 38, BBW who has lost a ton of weight over the last couple of years. I’m 130lbs down from my heaviest at 330lbs. I’m working to lose more, and I have a lot of loose skin. I love my body, so if this is a deal breaker, please move along. I understand it isn’t for everyone, but I cannot change this part of myself, until I reach my goal weight and have surgery to remove it. That may be a long time from now… so it is what it is.

I’m pagan, spiritual. I believe love is a choice, an action and a gift. It should not be possessive, or cause confusion.

I’m not interested in one word conversations. I want a man who is actively interested in getting to know me. Someone who doesn’t avoid me when things get real. Someone who is a good communicator.

I’m enthusiastic, passionate and determined. You can see what I look like, pics on my profile.

I’m not looking for sex. I’m looking for love. Sex is the celebration of a bond between lovers. Where there is no bond, there is no sexual attraction. I’m demisexual. I cannot form a sexual bond without emotional connection. Most men haven’t got the patience to wait for that connection to be made… so I need understanding and compassion, and patience.

I want a partner who can be a gentleman, and treat me as a lady.

I know it’s a lot to ask, but I’m tired of getting lead on, catching feelings and being ghosted.

Where are the loyal, honest men at?