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Can I stay friends with a crush?
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So I went on a few friend dates with an awesome bisexual girl to get to know her better. Weā€™ve really vibed, but she told me she isnā€™t ready to date, and when she is ready she said she will likely only date women. She has made no illusions about it, she hasnā€™t led me on and has told me not to wait for her, and we have become amazing friends since but I managed to catch ā€œthe feelsā€ for her. My main issue is wanting to remain friends with her, as I adore her, however I am worried I will always feel like Iā€™ve missed out on something great. Or am I now confusing platonic love with romantic love? We can spend all day cuddling and talking, we have chemistry I have never felt before, but neither of us feels sexual attraction for another, just an intense sense of comfort and safety. Any advice would be great as I honestly have never been in this situation before.

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