(If you see this, that means you can still reach out.)

TL;DR summary of what I’m looking for: I would love to have some sort of GFD style relationship, whether it’s casual or romantic, but friends are always welcome. I would like a partner, not just a domme. Both interpersonal and conversational chemistry are very important to me. Even if you just want to talk, don't be afraid to message me.

Basically, I really want to be a little spoon.

If this at all interests you, I hope you’ll read on.

I’ve posted here before, so maybe someone might recognize me. I also post memes semi-regularly to r/gentlefemdom, so you can see a bunch of those on my profile.

I’ve been around strong women all my life, so I guess that’s one big reason why I find myself here. Not uncommon to this sub, I’m also pretty shy, so having a partner/significant other who doesn’t mind being more assertive and/or dominant also appeals to me. All this and probably more are why I’m interested in gentle femdom. To me, it’s more than just a kink (and we can discuss actual kinks if you’d like). I often find myself wishing I could cuddle up to a significant other while they hold me and play with my hair. Even the idea of being a house-husband appeals to me.

While I understand there might be some sort of domme/sub type relationship at play, it is my intention that whatever develops is an equal partnership. This isn’t just for my pleasure, it would be for both of us. In that respect, communication is very important, as with any relationship.

With that in writing, I implore you to know that I WILL NOT BE A SLAVE. Too often have I gotten messages from people who haven’t read anything that I’ve written who ask too much of me.

On a similar note, I want you, reader, to know that you are not a kink dispenser. You deserve love, respect, and empathy as much as everyone else. I can’t speak for your experiences, but I’m always available to listen.

With all that exposition out of the way, here’s a little about myself.

I’ve fallen into some pretty nerdy hobbies such as video games and board/tabletop games. I enjoy watching tv and movies too, but who doesn’t? I recently graduated from college with degrees in math and music. I’m a violinist and therefore a giant classical music nerd, though I listen to other music as well. I’ve been told I’m a good listener, whether people want help or validation. Lately, I’ve been enjoying cooking and baking as well. I like to hang out with my friends when I get the chance, but more often than not, I’ll spend the night in by myself.

I'm about 5'7" with brown, mid-length, curly hair. I have hazel eyes and wear round-framed glasses. Relatively average/slight dad-bod body type. Physical attraction is also important if we decide to pursue more than just friends, so we can share photos when we feel comfortable.

Common interests are always welcome, but not at all necessary. I love to listen to people go on about what they love and what they're passionate about. As well as this, we can also find things we have in common should you decide to send me a message or chat invite (chat works better for me but I also have kik and snap. Discord too, but I'm not always comfortable sharing that right away.).

I have kinks and I'm sure you do too, but you can inquire about them in message if you want to hear them. I'm more interested in interpersonal chemistry rather than kink-related chemistry.

If you decide to contact me for whatever reason, you might want to go ahead and take a look at my profile and post history as well. There are tons of original gfd memes and a post about me pinned to the top that might be enlightening to read.

If you want to talk, here's a quick ice breaker question: if you could describe yourself as a fruit (or some other piece of produce), what would it be and why? (Answer not necessary. I just think it's fun.)

I hope to hear from you soon!