Hey there! I hope you're doing well during this extremely awkward and fairly terrible year. If not, hopefully I can assist! It's honestly been quite some time since I've even posted or searched for a partner, but I guess here goes!

While the search for my better half seems fairly endless, I haven't entirely given up just yet. So, to start things off, here's a quick list of details that seem to be of importance to most people:

• I'm 30 years old. (I don't have a specific range in mind, but I suppose if you're at least 22 or so we could try and see if we work out.)
• I live in Texas, but I don't mind a long-distance relationship, at least in the beginning. I'm entirely willing to relocate for the right one!
• I don't have kids. Speaking honestly, I'm not entirely looking to have them, either, but life is full of surprises.
• I've never been married or engaged.
• I don't drink or do any drugs. Not against others doing such, though.
• I'm quite feminine in terms of looks and a bit when it comes to personality. (You can check out the pictures below.)
• I am naturally submissive, and would like to find a partner that is either naturally dominant, or that is willing to try and take the reigns in a more female-led-relationship.
• Personality matters to me more than your looks. I find intelligence incredibly attractive, probably more than anything else.

Alright, so with all of that out of the way, I guess I'll give you a bit more insight as to what I'm like. I feel like it's kind of awkward how these forums and posts basically boil down to somebody trying to sell themselves to others before their attention span suddenly poofs, but I'll try my best.

I'm a fairly big fan of K-pop, though 2019/2020 has been almost entirely not my thing. I got into it back around 2009, so most of my faves have come and gone, but I still check into it regularly. I promise I'm not a crazed addict. (Let me call you Oppa, though.)

I play video games pretty much on the daily. Mostly multiplayer games that I can enjoy with friends these days, though. MMOs and fighting games are big hobbies for me. I actually helped to run and manage my local fighting game scene, too, so maybe that gives a better idea of my enjoyment of them.

I don't really watch TV shows very often. Pretty much I'll tune into something when I'm eating or when I'm trying to fall asleep. However, I'm still a big fan of cheesy teenage drama types of shows. Think Buffy, Riverdale, Charmed (the old one), and admittedly The Vampire Diaries. If you try to talk to me about Game of Thrones or The Walking Dead, I'll be entirely lost.

I was actually born in Japan because my dad was in the Navy at the time, so I've got dual citizenship. I plan on returning there one day to at least visit. It'd be awesome to have somebody to go with, too, of course.

I'm sure that it doesn't come across in my post anywhere, but I've been told I'm good with humor. I enjoy making awful puns and the like, so if bad jokes are your thing, I've got a surplus of them.

If you want a weird fact about me, I'm what's known as a supertaster. Basically it means that I taste things with more sensitivity. It's kind of a lame superpower, though. It just makes it so I have an extremely limited amount of foods that I can stand to eat. If picky eaters bother you, I guess I'm out of the running.

If you want to know anything else, I'm a fairly open book and I try to answer everything as honestly as I can, so feel free to ask.

Moving along, what exactly am I expecting out of you? What am I hoping to find in a relationship?

Well, let met start off by making one thing clear: while I'm submissive and am searching for a more femdom-centric relationship, I'm not simply looking for someone to fulfill my kink fantasies. I am more than a pile of fetishes, and I would hope that you view yourself and others in much the same way. I'll respect you as a human being first and foremost, and I am looking for someone to reciprocate that for me as well. Let me learn about you and your interests, and then we can move onto bedroom talk afterwards. I'm also not looking to take part in a non-monogamous relationship, so please pass me up if that's something you're after.

Okay, so that aside, I suppose that I would claim myself to be more stereotypical in terms of liking things that that are considered 'girly' in a relationship. Things like receiving flowers, my partner picking where to eat or go on dates, being the little spoon, being kissed on the doorstep after being dropped off.. I'm sure that list could go on for quite some time in that regard. That doesn't mean I wouldn't reciprocate such acts, of course, but I do want to make sure that I'm upfront about wanting them as well.

Ideally I'd love to find somebody that enjoys the smaller things in life. Somebody that can find joy and comfort in just snuggling up on the couch and watching some B-movies, or can find a night in cooking dinner together just as romantic as going out to a fancy restaurant. Not that we wouldn't do that, too, though. Oh, and I guess I'd love to find somebody that would think a date at the aquarium is as cute and fun as I think it sounds, too. SUPER big bonus points if you're willing to protect me from the horror that is trying to kill a cockroach that's somehow managed to crawl into the house. (I'm absolutely terrified of them. Seriously. Please halp.)

Admittedly I'm probably more clingy than the usual person might like, but if you enjoy feeling needed, I'm definitely capable of filling that niche! I've been told by a lot of people that I'm pretty much a manic pixie dream boy trope, so if you need somebody to be your cheerleader, I can do that, too!

Alright, this gigantic pile of words has probably gone on long enough, so I guess that means it's time to link some pictures of myself. To provide some level of clarity here - no, I don't dress up all the time. In fact, I'd say rarely in comparison to how much I dress like a regular run-of-the-mill guy. I leave it mostly for my leisure time in privacy, so if you're looking for somebody that's constantly dressed up, I'm probably not your best bet. I wouldn't be against it, but it often attracts attention that I don't really care for. For additional clarity - I'm not transgender. I don't believe that I'm a female, I don't have a dislike of my body. I simply like wearing feminine clothes more.

Here are some feminine pictures of myself.

And here are some pictures of what I more regularly look like. Bonus for you since you get a picture of my cat, too.

Anyway, I hope to hear from whoever is interested soon. I can't wait to learn about you!