Name: Jace

Age: 30

What I'm Looking For: Long term romance, but we should be friends first, right?

Bio

It's ya boi, comin' at you with that freeform bio because attempted humor deflects the crippling anxiety of trying to make myself sound interesting!~ Let's see...I'm an INFJ, I work in IT at a consulting firm (and love what I do so much I built a homelab and dick around with fun experiments and builds :D), I've been blessed with an awesome D&D group (we have a podcast!), I like to write and I love art in general (my Twitter followers probably hate how much cool art I retweet lol).

But seriously, I'm actually pretty shy (gosh dang it I'm trying my best!) but I love interesting discourse and will talk to you until 5am if I'm comfortable. I think a lot - about everything - and feel pretty deeply about things as a result. I also receive a lot of fulfillment from being an amateur counselor, uplifting people and helping people learn about their selves. Ultimately, I chase that warm and permeating feeling of bonding - genuine, deep connections that inspire me to do amazing, wonderful things.

I don't know how to finish this so thanks for listening to my TED Talk, I hope you're having a great day and Dog Bless!

Why role reversal / gentle femdom?

Genuine and unsolicited compliments? Yes. Hugs? Yes. I can be a little spoon? Yes. Forehead kisses? Very yes. Holding me near your heart with my head nestled under your chin? Can I stay here forever? Asking me about my day and talking to each other for 3 hours while we unpack my feelings, all while you're just holding me, listening patiently, and being super supportive? Holy fuck I can't stop crying because you're the most wonderful, beautiful, amazing person in the world and I just love you so much I'm sorry I'm rambling but thank you so much let me please give you a massage and cook you dinner or something...

Like I said before, I'm a pretty emotional guy but I've become accustomed to suppressing things and checking out of the world when things eventually bleed out. The idea that I don't have to pretend to be a stoic "tough guy" 24/7 just makes my heart flutter while I'm sitting here smiling like a big, dumb idiot. The GFD thing is pretty new territory for me too, but as long as it's romantic and your heart is in it... I'll probably melt in your hands. (*´∀｀)

Who I'm Looking For

Hopefully these things are apparent from the above, but openness, compassion, and a love of touch are key things I appreciate in a partner. I'm not afraid of having hard conversations and you shouldn't be either, but that also requires understanding it's not "me vs you" but "us vs this". I want to feel safe and protected. And I want to feel wanted. Let me turn this infinite emotional amplifier I have for a heart into a source of love and positivity I can pour into you.