Name - Ashley

Age - 33

Location - Southern California

Long distance? - Possible, but I'd prefer within California or within the West Coast.

Hello! I'm a fortunate person, really. I have a pretty fulfilling life. Thanks to being somewhat naturally gifted in a few ways, I have come to have a very well-paying and comfortable 9-5 day job and a pretty great side gig as a semi-professional rock musician. I am smart, I am proudly a progressive, and I live with a few cats.

I love style and fashion. If you need someone you can talk accessories and clothing to, that is me. I like Kate Spade bags, J. Crew pants, and Brooks Brothers everything. I'm small and slim, measuring at 36" chest with a 29" waist, so at 5'7" with my girl bangs, I can look absolutely adorable when I'm in one of my many suits because I absolutely love dressing up. Even on casual occasions, I don't hesitate to throw on a blazer. I might as well be a Korean Ken doll.

I am not exactly timid, but I am not a leader. Rather, I am a great follower. I am far from a pushover, but if I trust your vision, I'll be your dedicated second to the end. Additionally, my sense of masculinity is pretty weak, which is why I identify as non-binary, though I am comfortable enough with male presentation (hence M4F title NB4F flair) and use male pronouns.

In my 20s, I was convinced that my 30s would be boring and that life might wind down a bit. However, my life has actually gotten much more interesting. Particularly, music has taken me to some really interesting places across states and countries, and I've found myself standing next to musicians I looked up to earlier in my life. Sometimes, I can't believe how lucky I've been.

While one might imagine that living my best life has gotten me closer to finding love, it really hasn't. I suspect that it might be due to me sending out the kind of energy that most potential partners don't really dig. But if you're browsing this sub, then you just might be the one. I am far from perfect (for instance, a bit obsessive and hyperactive), but I think I can be a good friend and partner. Please talk to me! Send me a picture or a social media profile and I'll reciprocate.

Thanks for reading! Oh, and I love doing laundry.